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Drowning In Misconception Seems like a reasonable question to ask of a man who likes wearing dresses. Consider the one who is asking the question. How much do they know of the transgendered community, or of the man in that pretty floral skirt. Are all TG's gay? I can't or won't answer this for all TG's since I've had the chance to talk to many "girls" in the community. Absolutely some are gay. Some TG's are really going through tough decisions like getting the sex change operation so what really defines gay for them. Confusing isn't it? Some are hetero TGirls (although I'd like someone to explain to me what the term straight really means). Come on now how can a guy who cross dresses be completely straight? Just playing devils advocate here. I tend to think that for most of the "girls" that I've meet it seems most are bi or have bi tendencies. Me personally I haven't been with another TGirl and when it comes down to it what's hotter; I never check out a cute guy and always check out a hot chick. OK stop for a minute, while most men look at tits and ass, I tend to admire their cloths and shoes as well. So where do I fall in the spectrum? I am happy to be a guy but happier when dressed fully and look pretty as a girl. My wife asked if I was gay when I told her of my cross dressing and I re-soundly said "no!" I do love checking out tgirls all dolled up though. Hey like I said before I think I fit into the majority and can't help who I am. Oh well. I can't imagine even the straightest of cross dressers wearing pantyhose and a dress not having any thoughts at all. I mean being femme is part of the whole package isn't it? I could be wrong. If you feel femme then are you gay? See there's that damn question again! What does it really matter anyway. Unfortunately, after much deliberation with my spouse and the pics she saw of me only put the conversation to a standstill. She wanted all my stuff and to throw it out and I took a stand and said "no". We don't talk about it anymore and pretend it's not there. But it is. I am still here. Like it or not. Only death will stop me from cross dressing. So all the drowning in misconception that society places on us only hinders our progress in this world. Society is still so hung up on the sexes let alone trying to add a third sex into the mix. We are husbands, fathers, sons, we are doctors, lawyers, policemen, and even sports casters you get the point. Some are gay and some are not. So who's to say? Honestly. |
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